This Saturday I'll be in Cardiff, a city very close to my heart for many and varied reasons.
Half my family are from South Wales and annual trips for the
two week summer holiday from Wylam, our bijoux village in Northumberland, to Bridgend
to stay with my tiny, pepper pie making, story-telling grandma and our slightly
terrifying but softly spoken, one sweet-a-day-from-the-tin giving grandpa, are a
staple memory of my youth.
I remember weather watching after the 6 o'clock news – no Apps
back then - to find the best day for our visit to Swansea beach or our
essential trip to the local cinema on inclement days. From Wylam, you had to
travel to Newcastle to see a film and so we never did, which meant our holiday visits
were a Big Deal. Then there were the trips to Auntie E and Uncle E who doted
and fussed and plied our enormous family with the best-ever filled sandwiches and
if we were lucky, let us print photos in the dark room. If we were really
lucky, we were allowed to stay the night and marvel at our equally doting and very
grown up twin cousins who got up at 6am to set their hair in rollers before going
to work.
I'm sure they were delighted to have the very young me around
at that time as they made their preparations to leave.
But my strongest memory of them all is spending most of our
days on the glorious foot high wall which edged our grandparents' front garden.
It seemed enormous at the time and it was only in later years that I realised
the garden, although pristinely kept, was little bigger than the footprint of
the house. The wall, with its slightly curved hard stone top, provided the
perfect beam for my three gymnastics-mad sisters and me to choreograph and
'perfect' our routines, ready for the shows for interested adults at the end of
the day.
But Cardiff? Well, my older sister went to university in Cardiff
and thus I was afforded my first real taste of freedom at sweet sixteen. Mind
you, as well as the 'hanging out' with incredibly cool students (they were
three years older and, at 16, you don't get much cooler than that, do you?)
etched in my brain are also the memories of Birmingham Bus Station.
Oh my!
I had to travel from Newark via Nottingham and change at
Birmingham for onward travel to the final change in Bristol before reaching my destination,
surprisingly only five hours later.
How I ever managed the logistical feat of boarding a bus in Birmingham remains a
mystery.
There was a 'unique' system where people were ejected from
their first coach into an area the size of a school playground which was
already screaming at the edges before the coach crawled in. The flock of onward
travelling passengers were then left to fend for themselves. No chance of a cup
of tea in a white plastic cup, even if I could have afforded it, picture being
centre of the Mosh Pit when Wham! were playing and you'll know why keeping a
firm footing was my first concern.
My second concern was 'The Announcement'. Would I hear it?
Even back then my hearing wasn't my best asset and add to the mob of people the
crackling loud speaker, and deciphering the instruction, 'Bristol bound, Zone E'
was every bit as stressful as the anticipation of O-levels. Even back then,
deep in the middle of the Eighties, five foot one and three quarters was pretty
tiny and never did I feel smaller: invisible. And younger. My memory of the view
of the others in the crush to catch the coach was grey with a purple tinge -
and just because these people were four times my age, doesn’t mean they
couldn't bustle and jostle with the rest of them.
Birmingham Coach Station, 2009, after its £15m refurbishment |
Once the coach had pulled into its allotted zone, and the hopeful
passengers had lolloped and sprinted and hurdled their way to the awaiting
coach, there was one more obstacle to onward travel. The seats were a
free-for-all and I'd miss an average of three coaches before finally snagging a
place on each journey. In addition to my size and youth, I blame my Mum for teaching
me to queue. I do remember feeling very Mary Whitehouse about the rudeness of
it all.
Still, my ticket cost about 3p so mustn't grumble.
Once there of course, hanging out with my very mature and
all-knowing big sis who just wanted me to have 'the best time', I fell in love
with Cardiff: the city nightlife, the university union, the castle, the sport, the
shops. All this so close to your student digs? Life couldn’t get better than
this. In fact, I'd have considered it as a university option if it hadn't been
'my sister's city'. No matter, she lived there for many years after and I've
been visiting the city ever since.
And why am I travelling to Cardiff this time? I'm privileged
to have been appointed Writer in Residence at Octavo's in West Bute Street
where you will find me between 11 and 4pm on Saturday 15th October. I'll
be signing books, hosting a Q & A at 1pm and basically being in a gorgeous
book shop in Cardiff, so, please do come visit if you're remotely local. You'll
receive a warm welcome from me and the super friendly staff, the beautiful book shop is bursting with new reads, advice and well,
cakes...
...and lunch! |
The idea is that if you don’t turn up, I sit, surrounded by
books and a stone's throw from their pretty gorgeous looking café, and write. I
admit that on a normal day this would be absolutely no hardship to me, however, this
Saturday is different.
I love, love, love to meet readers (and potential readers) of Glass Houses and
Tea & Chemo – actually, it's just nice to chat with any fellow readers, in fact, just chatting generally is right up there with cafes and Prosecco and
a run in the hills for me.
Oh, and as well as a Book Café, Octavo's is also a wine bar.
See you in Cardiff, I hope!
Apologies - too busy to take photos, really! |
PS
Thanks so much to everyone who came to Waterstones in
Harrogate last Saturday. There was a wonderful buzzy atmosphere, lovely to see happy
faces old and new and… we sold every last copy of Glass Houses :)
I love trains, but I hate travelling alone - I always find a reason for someone to join me. I really should branch out, it's silly at my age!
ReplyDeleteSee, you are getting closer... I was in Cardiff in August ;-)
Funny, I love trains, definitely my preferred mode of transport, over cars any day because you can write, read... but I'm afraid I'm clearly not as sociable as you as I love to travel alone so that I can get lost in my work. Sad, I know! Now and again I'll get talking to someone though, and after the first five minutes of inner panic that I won't get around to what I'd assigned myself to do, I'm reminded that it's actually one of life's simple pleasures to have a good old put the world to rights with a complete stranger :) Thanks for reading!
ReplyDeleteJackie even your blogs are so vivid!Loved all those memory accounts made me feel like i was there!!!!! And Octavos was absolutely brilliant! loved your interview it was totally enlightening!!!!
ReplyDeleteAwwwww! Thank you :) I'm so happy you enjoyed the post and the interview, too. Thanks soooo much for coming. It's a wonderful venue isn't it? We need an Octavo's in Harrogate...
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