Wednesday 16 January 2013

Just imagine if...

Sometimes my imagination is a little over-exuberant. I’m not complaining, I quite like the world of fairies and ‘what if’s?’ I frequent, even if it does mean that I bang my head sometimes (or put my arm in a fully-functioning spin drier or break my knee falling over a plant pot.)

Take the date stone incident this morning.

Unsurprisingly, when I placed the said date in my mouth, I wasn’t giving the task my undivided attention. I do believe I was looking for the phone number to cancel my daughter’s dentist’s appointment while straightening out the pile of washing-up. I stopped. Checked. Then I checked my mouth again. Flesh of the fruit, yes; date stone, no. I’d swallowed a date stone! I reflected for a moment. I seemed to be OK. It did appear that I was still breathing and, duly tested, I could still speak.

I wondered if I should cough. But what if the stone was lying safely at the top of my oesophagus and a cough disrupted its angle, turned it squarely across the width of my windpipe and all breathing ceased? Just like that, with nobody aware, save for next door’s cat which would remain un-fed while its owners were in Australia.

I thought about my children at school, my friends at work and my husband on a train, no doubt in a tunnel without mobile reception, and felt panic rise up of proportions last felt six years ago at the top of the Eagle’s Claw at the local theme park. I’d have given myself a slap but uppermost in my mind was any ill-fated jolt to my insides. I took a few breaths in through my nose – was the air getting stuck somewhere between my throat and lungs? I couldn’t be sure but there was definitely a stone-shaped lump there, I could feel the ache. I shuffled over to the tap and poured myself a pint of water (in an unwashed glass, that’s how serious this was), hoping it would smooth the passage for the date stone and we could put the whole, sorry incident down to a blog post.

Should I call an ambulance? To tell them I was fine? No, I’d try my husband. I’m not sure what I thought he would be able to do, now an estimated ten miles away, but as he is always the consummate hero, and well-practiced, in a crisis, it seemed the only logical step to take. He said he thought I’d have already died if it was going to happen but that he’d leave his phone on just in case. 

Maybe NHS Direct was the answer but I couldn’t risk them suggesting I take myself to hospital, just to be sure, only for me to be sent home with a clean pair of heels and a stomach full of guilt for taking the staff’s time away from a proper patient.

You see, I was starting to think I might have had a lucky escape from a premature death without witness but still, I wasn’t taking any chances. The stone could move at any moment. I took both the landline and the mobile with me to feed the neighbour’s cat, happy to see me alive, I noted, from its tail swish against my calf, and thankfully made it back into my house. Could I risk a shower? First things first. I left the door on the latch in case the paramedics needed quick access and I couldn’t wrench myself from the heap I’d become on the floor. Having worked at Crime Concern, I know all the statistics about opportunist crime so was pleased that in my impromptu test, I unequivocally valued my life over my possessions – even the photos. I stood one phone against the bathroom wall and the other just outside (in case the steam should render the first one useless) and took with me the largest towel in the house and a plan to grab it if I fell, to cover my modesty.

When I emerged from the shower, although the date stone was still making its presence felt, I was still breathing. Three further glasses of water later and I decided that the initial danger had well and truly passed. Wikipedia told me that the greatest threat now would be a blockage in my intestines but that was of little concern. It meant I’d still have time to prepare my evening class before the problems started. Time itself right and I could have a gaggle of people around me willing to offer me up to the hospital in which all responsibility for my own survival would happily be taken from me.

Then the plot lines kicked in. Without the threat of imminent death, I sprinted down stairs to lock the door. Was that, I asked of my barely functioning hearing, a single foot step in the kitchen? I threw myself against the wall, braced myself and peered around the door frame, à la 50th anniversary of James Bond. Nothing there, it would appear. I tiptoed further into the kitchen. There was just a pile of half-washed dishes, a discarded phone, the business card of the orthodontist and a half-full packet of dates. But what if the noise hadn’t come from the kitchen at all but was, instead, behind me? I spun round. Clear. But I would still check every room in the house.

There was only me. I had survived a potential chocking fit and my house was free of vagabonds. 

Six hours later, I still find my hand intermittently reaching to my wind pipe and my ears prickling at the slightest rustle. I can see the opened packet of dates goading me from the work surface as I write but there they will remain. I will never eat a date again - which is a shame as we still have three punnets of them left over from Christmas. Quality Street, anyone? Soft centre, just to be sure…

19 comments:

  1. Oh dear, sorry to laugh! You just put it so well! Are you sure it had a stone in the first place? I know this is mad, but reading that post I started to feel a lump in my oesophagus - suggestive or what?! Great post - I hope it doesn't cause you any more problems!

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    1. How funny about the lump in your oesophagus, sorry about that! I know, I did wonder if there ever actually was a stone except its presence in my throat did feel very real but then again, that suggestive thing... I guess I might find out the definitive answer in a day or two??
      Thanks for reading, Linda!

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  2. Absolutely Brilliant! You are hilareous! I pictured every moment! What can i say- i haven't eaten a date lately but i did have a cherry muffin today- without event? Although hang on a minute... cough um croak what's that i feel and is it me or am i feeling a little breathless????? ......I'm just going to get the phone and unlock the front door like you say..........

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    1. HA HA! That made me laugh so much. Although, has anybody actually checked that you're still around to read this? Where's my phone when I need it? Oh! Right here, with the other one I'm carrying around with me permanently these days, because you never know... Remember to check all the rooms in the house once you've locked the door again, ok??
      Thanks for reading :)

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  3. I'll be much more conscious about every one of my moves next time I eat a date. You've proven once again that everyday life can kill! Well done. Just loved the morbid humour.

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  4. Thanks Karin, glad you liked it :). I did have a slight concern that people might think it's in bad taste but hey! If we didn't laugh, we'd cry...

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  5. Oh Jackie, I'm crying - with laughter! Your extremely pragmatic husband sounds just like mine! I'm so glad you survived your near-death experience and lived to tell the tale of the danger of dates! Brilliant, bonkers and beautiful writing! xx

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  6. Tee hee, glad you liked it Lesley :) The danger of dates (there's a book title in there somewhere) is a story that needed to be told, I feel. Are you back blogging? I do hope so, I shall pop over and have a look right now!

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  7. So funny, I'm still giggling. I've actually never figured out how to eat dates properly, and after this I'm not going to try!!

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  8. I'm darned if I know the right way to eat them ;) Oh dear. I'm feeling a bit guilty now about what I've done for the plight of the poor date. I bet they're a 'super food' as well...
    Thanks for reading, Annalisa.

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    1. I make cakes with them, Jackie, so I'll still use them when I get round to baking again!

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    2. Sounds lovely. I have three punnets going spare if you're short...

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  9. Well at least you know now why you need your mobile phone with you at all times....

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    1. He he! Very clever linking by a very attentive blog follower, thank you :)

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  10. What a very interesting life you lead! And all without leaving the house. I'm very impressed.

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  11. Some might say I should, perhaps, go and get a life...? Thank you for reading and for following, too :)

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  12. OK, I've had four spam comments this blog (immediately deleted),so I'm going to have put 'Captcha' back on - apologies to anyone for whom, like me, they have to re-set it a good five times before they can read the numbers that look like they've been lifted from the door of a seedy hotel and the letters which have been lifted from an Etcha-Sketch.

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  13. A good tale, well told. And all the better for being about a situation anyone could find themselves in, and being true. Strawberries are a good bet in future, although you do have to worry about ALL those teeny seeds on the outside... :o)

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    1. He he, good advice, Derek... and, as was pointed out to me moments ago, purple Quality Street chocolates do have whole nuts in them, can you just imagine the potential danger in unwrapping one of those? Come to think of it, this talk of chocolate is making me feel a little peckish...

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